High on Heels

Having just read Caitlin Moran’s ‘How to be a Woman’ (don’t worry I won’t spoil it for you book clubbers who haven’t finished it yet!) I now know how impossibly silly it is being a woman.  Moran has a brilliant way of showing us how idiotic we can be while allowing us to laugh at ourselves at the same time – all in the name of being a woman!

One such thing is the whole notion of high-heeled shoes! Ooooh how we love them, covet them, crave them, save for them, buy them…..and then not wear them!  Not just because we have no occasion to wear them to (though this is a strong and poignant factor) but ultimately due to the fact that basically we can’t walk in them!  I had to laugh out loud as I absorbed the ridiculousness of some of the shoes I have worn and tortured my feet, back, knees and pride in!!  I have many shoes, which you basically need to be transported to a spot in them and then stay there all night.  Forget walking, let alone dancing.  I’m posting this now as the Christmas season of parties and get-togethers is a common excuse for indulging in a bit of shoe purchasing.

Oh but we love them so much and as Moran pointed out, we firmly believe they make our legs look slimmer and longer.  However, Moran also remarks that the real effect is actually more like a pigs trotter than a supermodels limb – and I’m afraid I have to agree!

Then there is the waste:  The shoes worn once or not at all.  I believe this is, like many unworn items of clothing, us women stowing away for the fictitious woman we will one day be (or want to be i.e. same thing) when we have more time, when we lose more weight, when the kids are older, when that fashion comes round again.  We know deep down that day will probably never come but, it’s nonetheless a reminder of the woman we believe we can be.  She is powerful, sexy, not tired and without baby sick or a child’s dinner down her dress. Ah, how wonderful she is *sigh*

Right ladies, if we are ‘More than a Mum’ which indeed we are – then let’s start wearing those shoes.  Even if it’s to surprise hubby when he arrives home from work, or under your desk in the office, or while you’re doing your housework – Why?  Because we can, and that woman does not need to be fictitious, neither does she need to be skinny, childless, young or anything else you may sometimes wish you were.  It may at least make you feel good and bring a smile to your face – that is before the pain kicks in of course.

High heels are one of the things that intrinsically makes us feel ‘Woman’ and to me that is all good.

You are more than a Mum!

L

11 comments

  • Londonmum

    I completely agree. Having a weakness for very high very strappy very expensive shoes can be a curse when pregnant or with little kids. I live in my ballerina flats, converse or winter boots now.
    But I am breaking free as you suggest :-) I bought the most amazing pair of heels, my most impractical ever, while I was pregnant as they were on sale. They stayed pristine in the box for months and last month I went on a post baby date and planned my whole outfit around them. It was so much fun. When I go back to work in a couple of months I am going to keep a heel stash under my desk. Good idea

  • I can’t stand heels. The highest I’ll wear is 3 inch and that’s at a push. Mind you, I’m not particularly girly to be honest. More at home in a pair of Converse! X

  • agreed have many many shoe, that are so pretty just sat in their boxes

  • I love my heels. The solution to them hurting feet and every other body part – alcohol. Numb the pain and look good 😉

  • I have just gone back to buying heels and feel like a new woman in them. Ta for the encouragement!

  • I loved Moran’s book. I have dozens of pairs of heels under my bed, gathering dust. I used to wear heels all the time (both in my previous life as a lawyer, and out on the town 2-3 times per week). Then along came my husband and babies. In bare feet, I’m exactly the same height as hubby, and while he doesn’t mind me wearing heels at all, I HATE towering over him – I feel like a giant! Two wee ones at home mean nights out with the girls are a distant memory.

    However….you have inspired me to dig out my favourite pair of heels, and I’m going to wear them on Christmas Day. I’m also going to make more nights out with my lovely girlfriends a priority next year, and wear a different pair of heels each time!

    Fab post. Have a lovely Christmas xxx

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